I had the honor of spending time with my granddaughter Ariah
this weekend. I noticed that I am
discovering so much more about her. Her
likes, her dislikes, her personality, her flare and style, and even at age 5, the
way that she processes information. I am
literally “watching her grow”.
It’s funny, because I am at the stage in my life where I am aware of
what I am doing. Let me explain. It’s not like I’ve never seen anyone grow
before, I have a daughter who is grown. Looking back I was tasked with other responsibilities, like provision, education, protection
etc., and even though I can remember the moment of her conception, and the
exact moments leading up to her birth, and celebrated the milestones in her
life, I concentrated on her future wanting it to be better and brighter, and
perhaps did not give her present the full attention it deserved. As parents we tend to do that.
There are many events in our lives in which we fail to take full
advantage of watching it grow like: careers, personal growth, educational pursuits, businesses,
children and even love. One reason may
be that in our mind, its completion, or the final destination is better than
where we are right now. Take the entrepreneur
for example; everyone knows that the startup of a business is a very trying
time. Obtaining funding and investors
for the startup determines when and how your business gets on its feet. The entrepreneur dreams of the day when their
business and the profits from this business is exactly how he or she visualized
it…profitable. When success has been achieved,
the entrepreneur then begins to look back over their business career recounting
what it took to get there, but can never really say that they appreciated going
through all this until they have reached the end, or what they consider
successful. During its lean times, the
business owner may often have thoughts of giving up, but they don’t because
their sight is fixed on its completion, its success. I wonder how many entrepreneurs stop and say, “This
is where I am at this moment, I am thankful for it”, and begin to move on.
When we take the time to “watch it grow” , whether it be family, careers,
business, or personal growth, there will be times when we stop to take full advantage of life’s
moments. We take notice of the sights
and sounds of where we are at that moment, who is involved, what’s changed or
what is changing, what lessons have been learned thus far. More often than not, we look back when our
task or dream has manifested, or we only begin to notice when there is a “bump”
in the road or some type of issue. This
can be problematic in that we have to stop, fix the issue, then get back on
track when if we only took some time in between to “watch it grow” and savor
what we had at that moment.
But that’s why god gives us second chances by means of grandchildren,
new business ventures, new loves and most of all a brighter outlook on
life. With this opportunity not only can
we stop and savor the here and now, we can enjoy what is already grown, like watching
my daughter “grow “as she raises her family. So I say, stop, savor, and take the time to watch it, your growth right now.
Peace and blessings,
Phaedra